No
You can give access to the text of the letter either to individual addresses `WhiteList` (such as: 0xa1s2d3..., ... ), or open access to the letter to anyone.
In any case, the letter can be read only after reaching the opening time with a password.
Yes you can add/remove the addresses at any time.
Smart contract, which is managed by the service Lettoto, is part of a distributed blockchain of Polygon and downloaded once will never be changed.
Ethereum is an independent, decentralized database. Blockchain architecture allows you to store any information forever. Thus, The Lettoto ideology is fully implemented in the declared form.